LGBT Adoption

                                                                                                              
                                                                                                               
                                                                   LGBT Adoption
          LGBT adoption is the adoption of children by lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) persons. This may be in the form of a joint adoption by a same-sex couple, adoption by one partner of a same-sex couple of the other’s 

biological child (step-parent adoption), and adoption by a single LGBT person. Many individuals argue LGBT for religious 

and traditions. When gays and lesbians adopt a child it may affect the child's emotions, it may cause more gays and 

lesbians. When gay or lesbian get married they will feel happy because they are doing what they want, but this may affect 

the child emotions in three important ways. The child may feel rejected and isolated by other children, also he/she may feel 

inferior, too. And the other children may back away from the child.

LGBT

          First, the child will feel rejected and isolated because gays are not a typical family like the ones they usual see in our daily life all around the world. In general, God created us to be a man with a woman and not a man with a man or 

woman with a woman. When the child has parents of the same sex, this will be strange for him/her when he grows and 

understands the marriage nature. Parents who adopt children do not know what this child’s reaction to this situation in 

the future. A lot of kids are grow up in LGBT families may feel inferior in the society because they do not have the normal 

parents they should have in most of the people’s eye.

Gay Adoption

          Second, the special needs that the child wants it from both mother and father. The child has his/her own needs; some of them are from the mother and some of them are from the father. The fathers of the child cannot take the mother's place, and the mothers of a child cannot take the father’s place. Mothers and fathers are both important, but they are complementary; each has a role to play. The child may need things he/she can only find it in his or her mother or father, but not in both of them. This child will feel empty inside and he/she might be raised as well as he/she could be because he/she lacks the support of a father, or the care and comfort of a mother.

Gay Adoption

          Third, Many countries around the world still reject the idea about being gay or lesbian, so the other children may back away from that child who raised by LGBT parents, thinking that he/she is gay/lesbian and this will make the child feel 

lost and abnormal, and it will destroy the child’s self-confidence. Sometimes the society's perception is unjust and 

unequal with this kind of kids, whether for personal reasons, traditions, or religious reasons. Here, the child feels that 

he/she is in the wrong place and that his/her parents are not like normal parents. What make a lot of people in the world 

against the thought of being gay or lesbian is usually religious reasons because the three major religions Islam, 

Christianity, and Judaism do not accept this. For that, many people raise their children to be away from gays or lesbians 

and even their children.

          In conclusion, children need a mother and a father in their lives to raise them and teach them the correct values, 

practical life, and even religion. The society misjudges the child in this type of adoption because people in general do not 

know the extent of the danger to his/her life or future and the negative results that would happen if the child is sensitive, 

and for that they have to aware people of being gay or lesbian.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/LGBT_adoption
http://www.lifelongadoptions.com/lgbt-adoption

Marrying Young and Marrying Later

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Marriage is one of the most important steps that you would take in your life. It is a true and a pure relationship between a man and a woman. It is also a relation in which they promise to live together forever. People get married because they are in love, and they cannot be away from their lover, so they decide to continue their lives together, create a family, and share everything. But the marriage is a hard job, people who get married have to work very hard on themselves to keep their life beautiful and successful. A lot of people get married at a young age"for woman under 26 years old and for men under 30" years old; on the other hand, some of them like to marry later after a 27 years old for woman and 31 years old for men. These are the standard ages for a lot of countries around the world based on Wikipedia information. Both of marrying young and marrying later have their advantages and disadvantages.

Marrying young

Marrying at a young age, normally be between 18 and 26 years old for women, and between 26-30 years for men. This kind of marriage has a lot of advantages. When a couple decide to marry young, they are sure about their current love to each other, so they decide to continue and share their lives together. Usually marring at a young age is built just on emotions, for that both partners would have a great life full of love. Some things could let marriage at a young age is a good choice. They can get baby easily based on the physical health of the parties and their youth in age. Also having a baby at that time will be better for her/him to be friendly with the parents. And the couple could build their life together starting from the beginning.

Marrying later

Marrying after 27 years for women,  and 30 years for men  is also a good choice. When someone marry at later age, surely he/she has better experience than the young couples. Life between matures is built on reality life because they both have enough life experience to make the right choices for themselves. There will be a full understandable life between the man and the woman. They are simply ready for the difficulties of life and missteps that will face them with their careers and creating a family.

Divorce

All of these advantages of marrying young or later do not mean that there are no disadvantages for marriage. Studies show that people who get married at a young age more likely to divorce because they may not have enough life experience and they cannot fully understand each other compared to those who get married at a young age. And sometimes they cannot have the life they dreamed about together, whether it is about money or love. Also the couple who married later have the chance to divorce because the man has his own personality and the woman, too.  There can be a great understanding in the beginning but after marriage it is different, each of them wants to prove himself/herself in a different way from the other. Sometimes excess human experience makes a person arrogant on his or her partner and this causes big problems and divorce. And sometimes if the woman is over 30 years old, she will face physical problems in her pregnancy.

In conclusion, early marriage or late marriage have their benefits and difficulties.Marriage is a hard decision to make, also it is a permanent work.  people who get married have to work very hard to keep their marriage full with love and success.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/tag/marrying-young

http://www.care2.com/greenliving/the-advantages-of-getting-married-later-in-life-2.html

http://www.startimes.com/f.aspx?t=30254583