Marriage
is one of the most important steps that you would take in your life. It is a
true and a pure relationship between a man and a woman. It is also a relation
in which they promise to live together forever. People get married because they
are in love, and they cannot be away from their lover, so they decide to
continue their lives together, create a family, and share everything. But the
marriage is a hard job, people who get married have to work very hard on themselves
to keep their life beautiful and successful. A lot of people get married at a
young age"for woman under 26 years old and for men under 30" years old; on the other hand, some of them like to marry later after a 27 years old for woman and 31 years old for men. These are the standard ages for a lot of countries around the world based on Wikipedia information. Both of marrying young and marrying later have their advantages and
disadvantages.
Marrying at a young age, normally be
between 18 and 26 years old for women, and between 26-30 years for men. This kind of marriage has a lot of advantages.
When a couple decide to marry young, they are sure about their current love to each
other, so they decide to continue and share their lives together. Usually
marring at a young age is built just on emotions, for that both partners would have
a great life full of love. Some things could let marriage at a young age is a
good choice. They can get baby easily based on the physical health of the parties
and their youth in age. Also having a baby at that time will be better for
her/him to be friendly with the parents. And the couple could build their life
together starting from the beginning.
Marrying after 27 years for women, and 30 years for men is also a
good choice. When someone marry at later age, surely he/she has better
experience than the young couples. Life between matures is built on reality life because they both
have enough life experience to make the right choices for themselves. There
will be a full understandable life between the man and the woman. They are
simply ready for the difficulties of life and missteps that will face them with
their careers and creating a family.
All of
these advantages of marrying young or later do not mean that there are no
disadvantages for marriage. Studies show that people who get married at a young
age more likely to divorce because they may not have enough life experience and
they cannot fully understand each other compared to those who get married at a young age. And sometimes they cannot have the life they dreamed about
together, whether it is about money or love. Also the couple who married later
have the chance to divorce because the man has his own personality and the
woman, too. There can be a great
understanding in the beginning but after marriage it is different, each of them
wants to prove himself/herself in a different way from the other. Sometimes
excess human experience makes a person arrogant on his or her partner and this
causes big problems and divorce. And sometimes if the woman is over 30 years old, she will face physical problems in her pregnancy.
In
conclusion, early marriage or late marriage have their benefits and difficulties.Marriage
is a hard decision to make, also it is a permanent work. people who get married have to work
very hard to keep their marriage full with love and success.
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